Today is a "Works for Me Wednesday" tip, and co-incidentally Valentine's Day
Today is Valentine's Day. TV, newspapers, magazines, flyers, posters, billboards all urge us to spend lots of money (that we don't really have) to show how much we love that special someone.
Is money what it takes to say I love you?
Oh, yeah, if you have the money, the jewelry, the dinner out, the huge box of chocolates, or the Vermont Teddy bear are all nice.
But if you don't, that does not mean the romance is gone.
Here's how to romance your darling on a non-existent budget.
First, put all the little people to bed.
Second, take a warm shower (together, if so inclined...if not, not).
Third, have warm towels (take them fresh from the dryer) for your beloved.
Fourth, clean pajamas, nightie, robe (if you have little ones who may pop out of bed).
Fifth, spread a cozy quilt on the floor and pile up plenty of pillows.
Next, light a cluster of candles, of various heights, if you don't have a fireplace.
Pour a drink for each of you--in my case, diet Coke with plenty of ice works even better than vintage wine.
Set out a small plate of cheese, a few chocolates (snag them from your school age kiddies' Valentine goodies), a bunch of grapes, a handful of crackers, some shelled nuts.
Lie on the pillows, gaze into the flames, hold each other gently, and talk.
Talk about all the stuff you used to talk about before you had kids. Remind each other why you fell in love, and why you have stayed together. Flirt. Touch. Kiss. Talk. Kiss some more.
What happens next is up to your imagination, your inclination, and your population of little folks.
No matter how long you have been married, no matter how many children you have, no matter how tired you are, keep the flame alive. Romance the one you love. Act as if you are still in that starry-eyed first stage of romantic love. And you will discover that you still are.
Happy Valentine's Day!
Works for me.